Bread Givers – Sara and her Father

Sara and her father are very similar in one respect; they are both very determined and often stubborn. Sara’s father is determined to be fully dedicated to his religion no matter how much it makes him or his family suffer. He refuses to work and makes his family support him so that he can continue his studies of religion. His books take up much of the space in their tiny home.

Sara is very different from her father in most respects except for her similar sense of determination to follow her dreams. Her sister and mother work themselves endlessly to help support the family. Her sister Bessie works especially hard and gives all her earnings to her father without any hesitation. Sara on the other hand feels a sense of entitlement to the money she earns. She does not understand why her father can just sit around all day while her and her sister work tirelessly just to keep food on the table. Her father is very unappreciative because he just simply expects all of this from his family. Being stubborn like her father Sara is more reluctant to jump at her father’s every command.

Sara has her own idea of the American Dream. Being the youngest she is able to witness the choices her sisters make and the fates they meet. Sara does not just want to be married off to a man of her father’s choosing. She is determined to make a life for herself on her own terms. This sense of determination is something her and her father share strongly.

Y Boodhan – Blog 4: Bread Givers

In the novel Bread Givers by Anzia Yezierska, the main character Sara, expresses her dislike of her father. Sara is frustrated by her father’s tyrannical rule over her life and the lives of her sisters. As a result, Sara runs away in order to pursue a life of her own — filled with her hopes, dreams and ideas of love. Although Sara and her father are very different in their ideals and dreams, they are very much alike in character and actions.

Sara’s father comes to America with old-fashioned ideas like, women live to only serve the men in their lives, and women have no place in higher education. He thinks that his ideas are the only right ideas and that he is better and more enlightened than others. This is shown when he attempts to find husbands for his daughters and when he strikes the landlord.

Sara’s father is well versed in the Torah. He prides himself in being a very religious man. Despite his poor financial situation, he always has his eyes on money and that motivates many of his actions. Sara’s father does not earn any money but finds ways to spend it. Most of the money that he receives from his children goes to serve his desires. He takes away from the mouths of his family in order to fulfill his goals of helping others, buying books and contributing to different organizations.

Sara’s actions, and the motivations behind them, do not contrast those her father’s as much as one would initially believe. Sara, headstrong and focused on her beliefs and ideas, like her father, is willing to ignore the feelings of her parents and siblings and isolate herself in an effort to become a teacher. She does not force her beliefs on others but ignores their input and does what she believes is right in her mind. Because it was of no benefit to her, Sara didn’t go to see her mother until her final days, and even after the death of mother, refused to cut a piece of her clothing. Like her father, Sara is willing to sacrifice at all costs to reach her goals.

Although it may seem like Sara and her father are selfish, they are actually altruistic. Sara’s father donated near all of his money to the poor. In the end of the novel, Sara gives money to her father’s new wife to help him and even offers him the opportunity to live with her. Although they are both motivated to seek money and wealth, they also have hearts of gold when it comes to helping others. This is partly because they share appreciation of the ideas from the Torah. Later on in her life, Sara finds herself understanding and appreciating the religious teachings of her father.

Sara’s father has come to America refusing to give up the past, and Sara faces a similar situation after she runs away and becomes a teacher. Both of them feel a sort of gravitation to the past and their old roots in a new world. This gravitation is what brings Sara and her father back together but will always set them apart.

A Smolinsky’s American Dream

When did it all go down the drain? Life for the Smolinsky’s wasn’t bad before the young couple moved to New York from Russia. In fact, they were pretty well-off. But business went bad, and forced the two to make their way to the land of opportunity. What was waiting for them past Ellis Island can only be depicted as the saddest poverty story told, one that can cause any reader to become frustrated beyond words.

For Reb, the patriarch of the family, nothing was more important than the studying of the Torah. He titled himself the light between his people and God, and disregarded any shame that was cast among him. His own family muttered some nights in disgust about how hard they worked as women and how lazy and conceited he was on his hollow quest to be with God. Although he’s said so many times that riches meant nothing on Earth if it meant they were not awaiting in Heaven, he still carried on about finding his daughters rich entrepreneurs to marry. This was Reb’s American dream, coming to a land where he didn’t have to work, and marry off his daughters so he didn’t have to worry – the money they’d provide would give him his new business. The only sad part of his dream is it ruined the dream of his own children.

Through the eyes of Sara, we witness her three sisters all fall eagerly in love with men they couldn’t have. A poet, a businessman, and a pianist – all ready to take his girls for brides and all shunned by the bitterness of a stubborn, nonsensical father. They each dreamed of running away and chasing opportunity for all it’s worth. They dreamed of hard work for not only their husbands, but for their own independence.

As for Sara, her dream was similar to that of her sisters. The only thing that separated her from them was she had the will to escape. While all three of her sisters stuck true to their loyalty to their father, she cracked. It was no longer her priority to slave for him. It was her turn to make her dream into reality.

American Dreams in Bread Givers

The concept of the American Dream is different for each person, but the hope associated with it is a commonality amongst every immigrant. However, the reality of American life is often filled with poverty and sacrifices that get in the way of dreams, as the Smolinsky family learns in Bread Givers. Sara, her father, and her older sister Mashah all have different definitions of the American Dream, which affect their family greatly.

Sara’s version of the American Dream involves finding her passion and being successful. Success, in Sara’s eyes, is being able to find something she loves as much as her father is dedicated to studying the Torah, while still maintaining her independence and financial stability. Sara is extremely independent even from an early age, and is deeply affected by the way her father’s influence has created hardships for her older sisters. After seeing what her sisters went through, Sara is determined to make a better life for herself. She continues to pursue her education despite the many sacrifices it entails, and becomes conflicted between her own goals and those of her family and culture.

Sara’s father, Reb Smolinsky, has a different take on the concept of the American Dream. In his version, the American Dream means being able to study and express his religion freely, with the complete support of his family. Reb Smolinsky’s dedication to his learning of the Torah often leads to the negligence of his daughters’ happiness and ability to become independent. The steps he takes in achieving his American Dream have taken a strain on his family both financially and emotionally.

Mashah, Sara’s older sister, is established as being self-centered from the very beginning of the novel. She often spends the money she makes on herself before helping out her family, and is blissfully unaware of the magnitude of their financial hardships. Mashah is caught up in the superficiality of the American Dream – her prioritization of beauty and music over familial obligations creates distress amongst her family members, and later, in her marriage.

Meaning of Bread Givers

The title of Anza Yezierska’s novel captures the starvation and subjugation forced on the female characters by the culturally sexist influences in their family. Bread symbolized money in the 20th Century. As Reb Smolinsky remained at home studying Torah, the daughters of the house worked to provide money for the family, all of which was given to Reb Smolinsky. Reb focuses his efforts solely on the objective of going to heaven and often gives alms to others, neglecting his own family. His overzealousness blinds him to his family’s needs, and thus he forces his daughters to be bread givers, rather than breadwinners.

Furthermore, the title highlights Sara’s struggle between her personal search for independence and her cultural and familial duties to her family. As a bread giver in her home, Sara cannot pursue her quest for knowledge. While attending college, she rarely visits her family unless there is a threat to her continuing her education. After Sara’s mother passes away, however, she comes full circle and brings her father back into her home. Her father’s return symbolizes the reconciling of her conflict; she learns to remain independent while still fulfilling her cultural duty as a bread giver.

Breadgivers

Henry Burby

The title of Breadgivers implies many themes in the lives of immigrants, and specifically Jewish immigrants. By separating the compound word, two especially stand out.

The word bread serves as a reminder of a factor that defines the lives of many immigrants: hunger. The book begins with Sara pealing potatoes for dinner, and most of the early part of the book is taken up with food and the work which is needed to acquire it. It is something that everyone has to contend with from time to time, but for many people around the world, including immigrants, it is part of their core identity. Life is not easy without food. There is no time to relax when you face starvation. You need to work to live, a fact that is much easier to see for immigrants without a social or governmental safety net.

The term breadgiver is similar to the term breadwinner. However, their second words show the difference between them. Where a breadwinner brings home the food, a breadgiver gives it without expecting anything in return, even love. Giver points out the one-sidedness of the relationship between Bessie and her father. In Jewish culture, as seen in this book, the father contributes nothing to the family, and is given his bread for free. His service to the family is strictly relegated to their afterlives, and their acceptance of this situation makes sense at first. After all, an eternity in paradise is worth the fat from the soup. The first breadgiver in the family is Bessie. She carries the family almost single-handed. She works constantly, and gives everything she earns back to her family. She does this because, in her culture, she only exists within and for her father, and by extension, her family. She carries them at least until she marries, when she takes on the burden of her new family, and she may well need to support her previous family as well. This relationship contrasts with that of the modern American family, where the family is taken care of for love. In Sara’s family, there is a much stronger element of obligation.

Who are the “Bread Givers”?

When I first saw the title of the book I never really thought about what it meant, and it was until the end of chapter seven that I finally was able to connect the title and its meaning to the novel. At the end of chapter seven, after Sara’s father Reb drives his oldest three daughters away from love and then foolishly loses $400 on an un-stocked food store, his wife has enough of it and yells at him, “If only I were a widow people would pity themselves on me. But with you around, they think I got a bread giver when what I have is a stone giver,” (p 141). A bread giver is literally the person who gives the family bread, the one who puts food on the table and supports the family financially. Traditionally in a Jewish household this is supposed to be the male figure. It is expected for the man, the father, the husband, to go out and make the most money so that he could feed his family. Women are considered inferior to men. They aren’t smart enough to be on their own. They aren’t even good enough to get into heaven unless they are married to a man. However, Reb Smolinsky is quite the opposite of a breadgiver, and his choice in sons in law show to be quite the same.

It is ironic how a man who is so devoted to his religion and his culture, acts the total opposite than what is expected of him. In the public eye he seems to be a loved figure who brings wealth to his family through his public display of preaching and bragging. But in reality it is his daughters and his wife who are the ones bringing the money home. They are the ones who need to take care of him because he doesn’t even work claiming that his brain is worth more than money. And at the same time he expects to be the head of all financial decisions, dumb enough to purchase an empty food store without consulting his wife, the real brain of the household.

Since Reb figuratively has the title of a bread giver he has the ultimate say on who his daughters marry. And so he ends up picking out men that are like him, men who claim they are able to support their wife when in reality all they do is try to support themselves leaving the burden of the household on their wife’s back. When his daughters try to marry the men they love, Reb finds a reason to kick them out, whether they be too poor, unreligious, or too greedy. He finds a flaw in each of them but when his choices turn out to be horrible men, he doesn’t see it and blames the girls. For the beautiful Mashah her breadgiver is a fake, he acts as though he has money spending it all on his looks so that he can look rich, when in reality his family is starving and Mashah has to be the one to get money to pay the bills and even buy milk for her children. For the smart Fania, her bread giver too is a fake, as he gambles away everything leaving her miserable. And for the hardworking Bessie, her bread giver that promised to take away her burden gave her a bigger one instead with a business to help out with and five step children to take care of.

Seeing the way that her mother and sisters are treated by the men they are around shapes Sara into being the young woman that she is. Ever since she was little, Sara knew to never feel the need to be dependent on a man to take care of her. Her goal in life is to be an independent woman, with an education and no need for a man to support her. She is her own bread giver, she provides for herself, and shows everyone that her American dream means that she can finally be someone other than just a wife or a mother. That females here are just as equal as men. Sara breaks through the barrier and defeats the stereotype of who the bread giver really is.

Defining The “American Dream”

For most immigrants, coming to America means sacrificing the comfort and civility of their homelands to venture out into the uncharted territory of the Western world. People give up friends, family, and even stability to move to a place for the promise of what is known as “the American Dream.” There is the ideal of achieving that grand opportunity; for the chance to live among the privileged and see one’s image of reaching fortune and success come to life. However, what the American Dream has in illusiveness, it lacks in execution. For most, the harsh reality of life in America dawns in an age of “survival of the fittest” mentality. In Anzia Yezierska’s Bread Givers, the protagonist Sara, along with her father Reb and her sister Mashah, each have their own interpretations of what is means to live “the American Dream.” From self-invention to religious absolution to even unachievable beauty, each character’s interpretation of the maxim is influenced by what they value most and how they interact with the family around them.

Sara’s American Dream is molded by the deterioration of her family at the expense of her father’s iron reign. As she watches all three of her older sisters’ dreams for both love and the future fade away into the visions that their father has created for them, Sara realizes just how much she wants to be independent from the bounds of her family and her culture and create the person that she was meant to be. Sara is the most resistant to her father’s religiously-backed tenets, which is why it crushes her to see the potential in Bessie, Mashah, and Fania be devolved into something of her father’s creation. She strives to be a self-sufficient woman and to pursue her passions and goals, such as becoming a school teacher, at all costs, regardless of the consequences that she will face from her father.

On the other hand, Sara’s father Reb Smolinsky is dedicated to only one dream, and that is serving the teachings of his God and to live the most holy life on earth in order to prepare for what awaits him in heaven. For him, America is just a transient place; one that is meant to act as the intermediary between the religious nirvana he expects in the afterlife. While he does appreciate the money he receives once he wins the case against his landlady and the wages from his daughters, his primary concern is being the purist, most orthodox follower of Judaism. His religious background serves to juxtapose the Western secularism that Sara follows and also acts as a ironic motif throughout the plot, as all the troubles that the family faces are at the hands of Reb and his zealous religious reasonings.

Lastly, Mashah’s American Dream is laid out in her continual search for beauty. In the earlier passages of the novel, Sara describes her sister as caring more for her own image than the image of the family. Mashah is concerned only for her appearance and the upkeep of her lavish belongings. Because of her superficiality, Mashah dreams to marry a man who matches her in beauty and supplies her heavily in wealth. She wishes for a life greater than the one that her family can provide her, and one that is ornate and adorned with visual aesthetic and symbols. However, as with her other sisters, her dreams are crushed when her father chases the one man that she could ever love, and transforms into a being without care, faced with reality of the world that she lives in and the condition that she created for herself.

Meaning of the title “Bread Giver”

Anzia Yezierska’s novel, Bread Givers, follows the life of Sara Smolinsky and her desire to truly be independent from her tyrannical Orthodox rabbi of a father. Every time her sisters are married off to men they don’t love, Sara more and more hates the restrained life of a Jewish woman in the 1920s.

While reading the book, I saw the words bread giver actually mentioned only a couple of times. Each time, the words were referring to Mashah’s husband, Moe Mirsky, as her bread giver and how she needed him for money. Although it is usually never explicitly said, the bread givers are chosen carefully throughout the whole story. In this book, bread giver translates to the person who brings home the income for the house. It’s very similar to the term many American’s use today, “Dough Maker.” In this case, bread means money for the survival of the family even though the actual bread giver may not be so willing to give away his “bread.”

In the book, the bread giver may not always be one man. For the Smolinskys, the bread givers are the daughters of Reb Smolinsky as he brings no revenue home from being a rabbi. The eldest daughter, Bessie, actually makes the biggest wages out of all the daughters towards the middle of the story. Reb relies on Bessie’s wages to primarily keep up his religious lifestyle and to secondarily feed himself and the rest of the family. When Berel Berenstein wants to marry Bessie for no dowry, Reb is selfish to choose Bessie’s valuable wages over her happiness and declines Berel’s offer.

When the older daughters are married off to men of Reb’s choosing, their bread givers become their husbands. For Bessie, her worries and stress continue from her younger life into her married life as she switches from a bread giver to a mother of multiple step children. Her only happiness is from caring for her youngest stepson, Benny. Zalmon the fish peddler becomes her bread giver and provides for her in exchange for cooking, cleaning and taking care of the children. Mashah’s bread giver, Moe Mirsky, deceived her and Reb before they got married by saying he was a rich diamond store owner when in fact he was just a worker for a diamond store. He spends most of his wages on fancy clothes for himself while Mashah can’t even pay for the milk bill. Her beauty which was once the most important thing to her has now been replaced with taking care of her children and keeping her small house clean and decorated. For Fania, her bread giver is the wealthiest out of all the daughters. Abe Schmukler showers Fania with fancy clothes and jewelry only to show the world how wealthy he is. Sara becomes her own bread giver when she runs away from her and sees how hard it is to manage money by yourself.

All of the daughters are unhappy in their lives mostly due to the effects of their father. Like most immigrants at that time, bread giving becomes the most important thing to them whether it be from their husbands or made by themselves. Yezierska picked a fitting name for this book since it is all about finding who can give or make the most “bread.”

Bread Givers- Lina Mohamed

Lina Mohamed

Bread Givers Journal

Sara and her father were really different, some might say, but the reason they always were arguing is because they were actually very similar. First off, in the novel we see that Sara, her sisters and her father all have different meanings of the “American Dream”. Sara seemed to believe the traditional American Dream as she wanted to become American and become a “real person” throughout the novel. Also, Alice Kessler-Harris says “her elusiveness captures what is most American about her” (Page xvii). Sara fought for what she believed in just like her father fought to teach his religion to his family. Their contradicting beliefs is what led them to fight all the time. Their characteristics, however, are almost exactly the same. Sara’s desire is to find her light that she sees radiating from her father. She wants to be as passionate about something like her father is about his religion.

Sara was constantly looking to live her life as an independent woman even though she admired her dad’s dedication to his religion. Reb Smolinsky was strong willed in what he did and Sara was the same in everything that she did. Sara went off to gain knowledge and devoted all her energy to getting an education and being knowledgable just like her father does with his own holy  books. The similarities between Reb and his daughter keep getting more lucid as the story progresses.

Sara, however, began to resent her father when he wanted them to get married while still getting some money from them while they were nearly starving. Reb was so caught up in his books and his wife and daughters that he neglected them and often helped others before his family. Sara was doing the same when she disobeyed her father by leaving and going to look for a job because that was what she believed in and she was fighting for it.

She proved her family wrong when she got a job in the beginning of the novel because she did something by putting her mind to it similarly to how Reb was determined to do charity work and devote his life to god. Sara is constantly changing her mind about what she wants as she is constantly trying to become a “real person” but she does not even know what will make her ‘real’ or ‘American’. Therefore, this state of happiness she is yearning for is simply unreachable. This does not change the fact that she is extremely still similar to her father.