Ask Allie, TheCornerPaper’s Advice Column (Week of 8/3)
Dear Allie,
My friend asked if I wanted to have a sleepover at her house one night. I said no because I was scared. Now she asked again and I don’t know what t do! I don’t want her to think Im constantly blowing her off! I cant tell her- she’ll think Im a baby. I really want to go- I just don’t know what to do.
From,
Scared Snoozer
Dear Scared Snoozer,
The first thing you need to figure out is why your uncomfortable. Is it because you don’t want to sleep at her house? Do you not want to sleep on the floor? Or is it the overall concept of a sleepover? If you don’t want to go to her house, would you be willing to do it at yours? If you don’t want to sleep on the floor, ask if you can sleep on a couch or bed. If you don’t want to sleepover at all but you want to hang out and do sleep-overish stuff, blame it on your parents. Call your friend and say “My mom doesn’t really want me to sleep over, but she said it’s ok if we hang out until like 10. Would that work for you?” It’s polite, and it gets the job done. Hope I could help!
Love,
Allie
Dear Allie,
My sister took French for the first time last year and says she needs to practice over the summer. If she’s practicing for Annoyance 101; she should get an A+. She shouts random French words at random times. “Fromage!” “Chein!” “Verte!” It’s so…. XXX (that’s annoying in French). Please, please, PLEASE help me!
Sincerely,
Furious Frenchie
Dear Furious Frenchie,
This is a very annoying situation to be put in. You have to understand that your “soeur” does need to practice. Maybe ask her if she wants you to quiz her from one of her “livres”. By helping her out once in a while, she might not randomly shout out words. Say to her “I’d like it if you stopped shouting words out all the time. It really bothers me.” Just make sure you are “sympathique” about it. Bonne Chance!
Signing off,
Allie
29 things you need to learn about making it BIG, By Naomi Mombeleur
1.Becoming famous is not easy; you should probably have some kind of talent.
2. Take risks
3.Become a publicity hound
4.Find the Connections
5.Become determined and persistent
6.Hit them with the best you got
7.Get discovered somewhere else
8.Learn about music industry/business itself so as to not get fooled by bad contracts or by verbal agreements
9.Get it ‘DOWN’
10.Practice
11.Showcase yourself as much as you can
12.Judge your talent by the company to attract
13.Choose songs to do your best
14.Start with one good song that you sing well
15.Breath, Breath deep, more air than you will possibly ever need to do the song
16.Don’t strain and tighten up, or try too hard
17.Be Unique
18.Let them tell you its Sensational
19.Except turn downs
20.Jam with people better than you are and it should rub off on you
21.Join a band as a singer
22.Be a role model and also be nice because you don’t want people think that you are nothing but mean, selfish rock star to your fans
23.Remove the really negative people in your life
24.Prove yourself and prove your choices by getting it done with persistence no matter what
25.Never forget there is always someone better than you out there
26.If you have problems singing on stage then close your eyes and pretended no ones they’re but you
27.Keeps your friends close and never lose what’s close to you
28.Don’t let the world of success change you always be you and be true
29.Share your talent with everyone
How To Become Famous, By Naomi Mombeleur
Becoming famous is not easy. There are so many famous singers in the world; you can become one of them. It takes hard work, dedication, skill and the right amount of luck, but anybody can do it. And maybe that somebody could be you. You’ve got to make a band (form a band with your close friends) or learn the guitar if you want to become a solo vocalist (ex. Taylor Swift) all you have to do is figure out the type of music you want to create. To start off writing lyrics every bit of inspiration counts. Some ideas to get started with lyrics are about pain you’ve experienced, or how happy you’ve been or how lucky you are. Here’s a tip either go on a talent contest or somewhere people will hear you perform, or if its worth one in a million try Youtube you never know if you’ll get chosen for your talent express yourself and show the world what you’re made of.