From The Peopling of New York City

South Asians, whether they are Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, etc., have a very personal and deep relationship with their family members. This is evident just walking through the streets of Jackson Heights, where families spend much time together. To realize the importance of the family unit in South Asian life, we have to take a look at its significance in the home country. For example, in India, it is often times very common for young people to live at home with their families until they are ready to be married. At this point, one of the most crucial family traditions is evident: the arranged marriage. Portrayed as insensitive or even backwards among people in the United States, the arranged marriage is a long tradition that serves to put kids' trust in their parents. At the same time, the arranged marriage also brings together two families, making it not only more extended, but more intimate. The stress of the family is also seen in the living arrangements of various types of South Asian families. It is extremely common to see large families, extending to grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc., living in one house. This arrangement often times brings the family closer together, while at the same time rationing out different responsibilities to its members. Women may stay at home together, making the kitchen their own domain. The men go to work, while the children attend school. The role of elders is also very important: they are the ones given the utmost respect, and often times are responsible for the decisions being made in the household. In this typical setup, the family becomes central to the lives of South Asians. It is easily one of the most important aspects of Desi life, and goes so far as to define the roles of people living in South Asian countries. This strict structure, although changing as India becomes more involved in the global economy, becomes a tradition as generation after generation repeat the same kind of lifestyle.